Can someone make me feel better about my situation?

i cant believe people feel sorry for you. you set a goal and you didnt reach it. no one should feel sorry for you. i feel no pity for you. come on you have to have some personal accountability. i am a competitive bodybuilder who has a competition in a couple of weeks. if i dont look good enough and not in contest condition i have no one to blame but myself. i dont want any one to have pity on me. oh i got out of shape well take accountability and suck it up and go out and work your *** off. everyone that has sorrow for you needs to take a good look at themselves. this post has really pissed me off