PEOPLE THAT ARE SUPPOSED TO BE YOUR FRIENDS.?

ok so i need help on somethingg..its a cousin/friend thing..OK SO I HAVE THESE 2 COUSIN/FRIEND'S AND THEY ARE KOOL WHEN THEY WANNA BE.BUT THERE MOTO IS YOU HAVE TO SAY HI TO THEM FIRST OR I WONT TALK TO YOU..I THINK THATS IT DUM AND IF YOU ARE SOMEBODYS FRIEND YOU SHOULDN'T DO THAT.AND WHENEVER I WANNA SAY SOMETHING TO THEM ABOUT IT MY FAMILY YELLS AT ME AND TELLS ME NOT TO SAY ANYTHING BUT YEAH I MEAN MAYBE IM BRINGING THIS PROBLEM TO A WHOLE DIFFRENT LEVEL BUT I THINK IT'S STUPID AND I CAN BE A ***** TO BUT YOU DONT SEE ME GOING AROUND ACTING LIKE MY **** DONT STINK AND TELLING ME THAT THEY HAVE TO SAY HI TO ME FIRST OR I TALK TO THEM..BECAUSE THATS DUMM!!..SO LIKE EVERYTIME I TRY TO STOP TALKING TO THEM SOMETHING TELLS ME NOT TO SO I GO RIGHT BACK TO THE SAME RUITINE AND KISS THERE ES BUT ITS NOT LIKE I WANT TO IT'S LIKE I HAVE TO REMEMBER WE ARE FAMILY AND LIFES TO SHORT BUT I FEEL IF THEY CAN GO WITHOUT TALKING TO ME I CAN BE A ***** AND GO WITHOUT TALKING TO THEM SO TODAY I STARTED NOT TALKING TO THEM AND THE ONLY WAY TO PROVE IF THERE GOOD FRIENDS IS IF THEY START TALKING TO ME FIRST AND IF NOT..IM GOING TO STICK WITH MY PLAN AND ACT STUCK UP TO AND SHOW THEM I CAN GIVE THEM A TASTE OF THERE OWN MEDICINE...BUT TELL ME DO YOU THINK I SHOULD LET THIS SLIDE OR SHOULD I STICK WITH MY PLAN